Stefan Bain, LCSW
Sexual health specialist for men
- Sex-related concerns
- Evidence-based care
- Warm interactive style
About Stefan Bain
Stefan Bain is a clinical therapist with more than 30 years of experience as a psychotherapist. He holds an MSW (Master of Social Work), an MPH (Master of Public Health), and the credential LCSW, which stands for licensed clinical social worker, and he is also a CST, a Certified Sex Therapist. He trained at the University of California, Berkeley and completed postgraduate training at Vanderbilt University.
His clinical practice focuses exclusively on sex-related concerns for men, including performance problems, infidelity, sexual addiction and compulsion, pornography addiction, and other sexual disorders. Because sexual difficulties are often connected to other areas of life, his work frequently addresses related issues such as anger management, substance or behavioral addictions, anxiety and depression, trauma, body acceptance, and exploration of sexual identity and fantasy.
His style is described as warm and interactive, and he draws on evidence-based methods to shape treatment. He works with respect, sensitivity, and compassion, tailoring conversations and treatment plans to each client’s particular needs. His approach blends cognitive-behavioral, humanistic, psychodynamic, and rational-emotive techniques to provide practical tools and strategies.
One central goal is to equip clients with skills that endure after therapy ends so they can continue to pursue overall wellness and a sense of wholeness as they define it.
His clinical practice focuses exclusively on sex-related concerns for men, including performance problems, infidelity, sexual addiction and compulsion, pornography addiction, and other sexual disorders. Because sexual difficulties are often connected to other areas of life, his work frequently addresses related issues such as anger management, substance or behavioral addictions, anxiety and depression, trauma, body acceptance, and exploration of sexual identity and fantasy.
His style is described as warm and interactive, and he draws on evidence-based methods to shape treatment. He works with respect, sensitivity, and compassion, tailoring conversations and treatment plans to each client’s particular needs. His approach blends cognitive-behavioral, humanistic, psychodynamic, and rational-emotive techniques to provide practical tools and strategies.
One central goal is to equip clients with skills that endure after therapy ends so they can continue to pursue overall wellness and a sense of wholeness as they define it.
Areas of Expertise
Primary Focus
Also Specializes In
Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD
Additional Focus Areas
AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues
Therapeutic Approach
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Attachment-Based Therapy Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) Mindfulness Therapy Motivational Interviewing Narrative Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy Trauma-Focused Therapy
Frequently Asked Questions
How much experience does Stefan Bain have?
Stefan Bain has 30 years of experience.
Is Stefan Bain a licensed therapist?
Yes, he holds the credential LCSW (licensed clinical social worker). License details are CA LCSW 21512 and TN LCSW 6460.
In which languages does Stefan Bain provide therapy?
He provides therapy in English.
Where is Stefan Bain located?
He is located in Tennessee.
How can I work with Stefan Bain as my therapist?
You can work with Stefan Bain through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
Does Stefan Bain work with international clients?
Yes, Stefan Bain works with international clients.
How much does therapy with Stefan Bain cost?
The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, just click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.
How can I get started with therapy?
Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Just click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.
Evidence-Based Approaches for Online Sexual Health Care
Stefan Bain integrates several therapeutic approaches that translate well to online work. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on helping clients notice thoughts and feelings without getting entangled in them and on identifying personal values to guide meaningful change - it can be especially helpful for stress, anxiety, and managing compulsive behaviors. Attachment-Based Therapy examines patterns formed in early relationships and how those patterns affect current intimacy and trust; this approach is useful for relationship difficulties, attachment concerns, and intimacy-related issues. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) targets unhelpful thoughts and behaviors with practical strategies and skill-building, making it effective for anxiety, depression, sexual performance concerns, and many addictive patterns.
Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist works with each client to explore which methods align with their needs, goals, and preferences and adjusts the plan over time to find the best fit.
Online therapy options such as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging offer flexibility for scheduling and accessibility for clients who live far away or travel frequently. These formats allow licensed professionals to provide consistent, ongoing care and practical tools in ways that fit a client’s daily life and commitments.