Barry Plumlee, LMFT, LCMFT
Compassionate marriage and family therapist
- Family focused
- Trauma recovery support
- Evening availability
About Barry Plumlee
Barry Plumlee is a licensed therapist practicing in Missouri, Kansas, and Oklahoma with 21 years of clinical experience helping individuals, couples, and families manage complex life challenges. He holds LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist) and LCMFT (Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist) credentials and brings a compassionate, tailored approach to work with stress, anxiety, trauma recovery, family dynamics, and interpersonal communication.
His practice addresses a broad range of emotional and relational concerns, including social anxiety, mood disorders, relationship conflicts, parenting and adoption issues, addictions, grief, and sleep difficulties. Much of his experience stems from community mental health roles in children and family services, alongside extensive work with adult and marital concerns.
Barry draws from multiple evidence-based methods to create a respectful, collaborative therapy process that emphasizes understanding and practical coping strategies. He supports clients in exploring personal struggles, developing resilience, and making meaningful emotional changes that align with their goals and values.
Scheduling is focused primarily in the evenings from 5:00 PM to 12:00 AM and on Sundays after 12:00 PM, offering options for clients who prefer later appointments.
His practice addresses a broad range of emotional and relational concerns, including social anxiety, mood disorders, relationship conflicts, parenting and adoption issues, addictions, grief, and sleep difficulties. Much of his experience stems from community mental health roles in children and family services, alongside extensive work with adult and marital concerns.
Barry draws from multiple evidence-based methods to create a respectful, collaborative therapy process that emphasizes understanding and practical coping strategies. He supports clients in exploring personal struggles, developing resilience, and making meaningful emotional changes that align with their goals and values.
Scheduling is focused primarily in the evenings from 5:00 PM to 12:00 AM and on Sundays after 12:00 PM, offering options for clients who prefer later appointments.
Areas of Expertise
Primary Focus
Also Specializes In
AddictionsRelationship issuesGriefSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue
Additional Focus Areas
Adoption and foster careAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHearing impairedImpulsivityMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues
Therapeutic Approach
Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Gottman Method Motivational Interviewing Psychodynamic Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy Trauma-Focused Therapy Systemic Therapy
Frequently Asked Questions
How much experience does Barry Plumlee have?
Barry Plumlee has 21 years of experience.
Is Barry Plumlee a licensed therapist?
Yes. He holds these credentials: LMFT, LCMFT. License details: MO LMFT 2017030440, KS LCMFT LCMFT 703.
In which languages does Barry Plumlee provide therapy?
English.
Where is Barry Plumlee located?
Missouri.
How can I work with Barry Plumlee as my therapist?
You can work with Barry Plumlee through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
Does Barry Plumlee work with international clients?
Barry Plumlee does not currently work with international clients.
How much does therapy with Barry Plumlee cost?
The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, just click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.
How can I get started with therapy?
Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Just click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.
Therapeutic Approaches and Online Support
Barry Plumlee integrates client-centered therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and the Gottman Method into his work to address a variety of personal and relational concerns. Client-centered therapy focuses on creating a respectful, empathetic space where the client’s own goals guide the process and self-understanding grows; it is useful for building trust, increasing self-esteem, and navigating life transitions. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) helps identify and change unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns through practical strategies and skills, and it is often effective for anxiety, depression, and stress management. The Gottman Method offers structured tools for couples to improve communication, resolve conflict, and strengthen relationship bonds.Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process, and Barry works collaboratively with each person or couple to determine which methods best match their needs, goals, and preferences. He combines approaches when appropriate to create a personalized plan that fits the client’s situation and pace.
Online therapy with Barry is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, providing flexible options for different schedules and comfort levels. These remote formats make it easier to attend regular sessions, fit therapy into evening or weekend availability, and maintain continuity of care during life changes.