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Holly Starr, LMFT

Holly Starr, experienced LMFT for grief and relationships
  • 25 years experience
  • CA LMFT 22500
  • Video phone live chat

About Holly Starr

Holly Starr is a psychotherapist with 25 years of experience practicing in the San Francisco Bay Area. She holds a BA in English Literature and a Master’s degree in Clinical Psychology, and is credentialed as an LMFT - a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Comfortable moving between in-person talk therapy and written online formats, she has provided care in residential settings and private practice for adolescents, adults, and older adults.

Early roles as a suicide prevention hotline counselor and as a grief therapist and supervisor shaped her sustained interest in helping people navigate depression, loss, and bereavement. She pays close attention to experiences of shame, low self-esteem, and relational conflict that can undermine functioning and contribute to anxiety or despondency. Those concerns are a frequent focus of her work.

As a clinician she combines attentive listening with active observation, guiding clients to approach feelings with curiosity and openness. Together with clients she explores difficult or conflicted experiences that may be hard to name, and examines how thoughts influence choices and behaviors. Often small shifts in awareness or behavior lead to measurable relief in mood and relationships.

She recognizes that reaching out for help can be challenging and approaches each new therapeutic relationship with care and patience. Holly Starr welcomes the opportunity to support individuals as they begin their work toward greater well-being.

Areas of Expertise

Primary Focus

Also Specializes In

Additional Focus Areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyDissociationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFertility issuesGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessMidlife crisisMood disordersPostpartum depressionWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Attachment-Based Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Jungian Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Holly Starr have?

Holly Starr has 25 years of experience.

Is Holly Starr a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds the LMFT credential, which stands for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. License details are CA LMFT 22500.

In which languages does Holly Starr provide therapy?

Holly Starr provides therapy in English.

Where is Holly Starr located?

Holly Starr is located in California.

How can I work with Holly Starr as my therapist?

You can work with Holly Starr through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Holly Starr work with international clients?

Holly Starr does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Holly Starr cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Care



Holly Starr integrates Attachment-Based Therapy to explore how early relationships shape current emotional patterns and relationship dynamics; this approach is useful for clients working through intimacy-related concerns, attachment issues, or family of origin patterns. She also employs Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to identify and gently challenge unhelpful thoughts and behaviors, a practical approach for anxiety, stress, mood disorders, and negative self-beliefs. In addition, she draws on Psychodynamic Therapy to help clients uncover recurring themes and unconscious influences that contribute to grief, depression, and interpersonal conflict.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Holly works with each person to assess needs, goals, and preferences and tailors interventions so therapy feels relevant and manageable. Clients and therapist together monitor progress and adjust methods as understanding deepens.

Online therapy with Holly is offered through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, which provides flexibility for scheduling and fits a variety of communication styles. These options make it easier to access licensed professionals from different settings and life stages, supporting continuity of care while accommodating work, family, and mobility considerations.

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